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DLC | Blueprint Magazine | January 22, 2002
Demanding Responsibility From Men
By Sen. Evan Bayh

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The historic welfare reform bill of 1996 had, at its core, one fundamental principle: Personal responsibility should accompany government-provided opportunity. Over the last five years, we have seen the results as Americans were empowered to get jobs, to collect a paycheck, and to provide for their families. Millions of people who used to be dependent on welfare are now self-sufficient.

But the "first generation" of welfare reform demanded responsibility only of custodial parents, mostly single mothers. While women with children were required to leave the welfare rolls within five years and become self-sufficient, parents who were non-custodial -- mostly men -- were left out of the equation.

Now, five years later, as we embark on the next generation of welfare reform, it's time we demand that men live up to their responsibilities too. It's not right for a man to bring a child into the world and just walk away, leaving mothers and taxpayers to pick up the bill.

The reforms of 1996 were successful: Welfare caseloads have declined from just over 5 million in 1994 to just over 2 million in 2001. Today, 73 percent of single mothers are working, up from just 57 percent nine years ago. Most important, the poverty rate among American children has declined by a third.

However, hidden within those numbers is a telling statistic about who is really hurt when fathers do not take responsibility for their children. The poverty rate for children living in married families is about 8 percent; in families headed by a single mother it is roughly 40 percent.

As the successes of welfare reform become clear and the number of single mothers finding self-sufficiency continues to rise, so too does the number of American children who go to bed each night without a father in the house. Today, 17 million children -- more than three times as many as 40 years ago -- live in fatherless homes The absence of fathers has substantial consequences for our broader society as well as for the children. Research indicates that if you are a child living without your father, you are five times more likely to live in poverty, twice as likely to commit a violent crime, twice as likely to be involved with drugs or alcohol, twice as likely to drop out of school, and much more likely to become pregnant as a teenager -- and the list goes on and on.

Mothers -- especially single mothers -- have been heroic in their efforts to raise our nation's children, but they should not be expected to shoulder the burden alone. At the time of welfare reform in 1996, few were asking where the fathers of these children were and what contributions they should be expected to make to help move their families off of welfare.

Welfare in America has traditionally been focused on providing assistance to needy children and promoting the self-sufficiency of their parents. In 1996, two new goals were added to the program: reducing the incidence of out-of-wedlock pregnancies and promoting the formation and maintenance of two-parent families.

To achieve each of these goals, we will have to make specific demands of American men: First, act responsibly and do not bring children into the world until you are prepared to support them both emotionally and financially; and second, if you do have a child, do all you can to meet the very serious obligations of fatherhood.

Welfare reform is the right place to demand male responsibility and face the challenges of fatherlessness. I have coauthored bipartisan legislation with Republican Sen. Pete Domenici that highlights the importance of families and marriage to child development and aims to promote responsible fatherhood through public awareness, community involvement, and the removal of federal barriers to active fatherhood. We reach out to try and persuade men to be responsible in the first place and to wait until they're prepared to assume the awesome responsibilities of bringing a child into the world -- and when they do so, to do right by that child.

While states currently have the flexibility to provide services to fathers, there are no incentives in place to encourage them to do so and no explicit direction on how to provide men with the tools they need to act more responsibly. The only form of paternal involvement directly mandated by current law is to provide child support. As a result, states have spent only one-half of 1 percent of their federal welfare dollars on services that directly incorporate noncustodial parents.

Our approach is focused on helping children, but it has the added benefit of being in the best interest of taxpayers as well. In Washington, we vote on budgets that allocate hundreds of billions of dollars to deal with the symptoms of what really is a deeper problem. If we're going to save taxpayer money and make progress in combating juvenile violence, if we're going to make progress against drug and alcohol addiction, if we're going to make progress in improving education and employment opportunities across this country, we need to make progress first in strengthening families and helping them to raise our children.

If we demand responsibility from men, it will be good for our children, helpful to mothers, beneficial for taxpayers, and an added strength to our society. And while there is no legislation that we can enact into law that will mandate responsibility or create strong families by itself, we owe it to our children to try by making sure that the next generation of welfare reform demands responsibility from men.

Sen. Evan Bayh (D-Ind.) is chair of the Democratic Leadership Council. He also serves on the Senate Banking Housing and Urban Affairs Committee, on which he is chairman of the subcommittee on International Trade and Finance.


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